WELCOME
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My name is Elaine
Douglas. Owner and designer of GRANNIES MEMORY BEARS.
My business
was originally named Grannies Bears, but with the sudden, horrific and
unexpected death of my daughter Wendy, December 14 2003, I found that I could
not function during the day or sleep at night. I miss her so much! How could
she be gone? Is she really gone? My thoughts became scattered. Making decisions
was next to impossible. The pain in my heart was so intense that it was
difficult to breathe in and out. Night and day were the same.
I kept
making teddy bears trying to fill up daytime hours but found that I could not
design their faces (my favourite part because it made them come alive, as if
they could talk to me). My artistic talent was on hold. I didn't know or care
if it would ever come back and I couldn't complete any orders. I felt numb and
monotone. The words "JOY and HAPPY" no longer existed in my vocabulary. It felt
like my purpose in life had ended. Even though sleep was not easily accessible
and the nights seem to last forever, I found myself not only hugging the teddy
bear that held Wendy's picture all night long but also during the day when
coping was impossible, I would lay in the fetal position sobbing and trying to
get through the next hour. How long could I do this? I didn't and couldn't
care.
I reached out to a
community support
group for help. With counselling, group therapy and interaction with many
parents who had experienced the pain of losing a child, I found that my coping
skills were strengthening as my journey with grief continued. I began to bring
into focus my other daughters Christine and Becky as well as my 6 beautiful
grandchildren. I was starting to enjoy and love them completely again counting
my blessings as they gave me a reason to get up each day.
In what seemed
like an eternity later, I had a great idea! I thought of how much nicer it
would be to hold a teddy bear made from clothing Wendy wore; something that she
loved herself and still had her smell, an item of clothing that I could readily
recognize. So with that, I designed the first teddy using her bunny, patterned
nightgown. It did comfort me, in a way that is unexplainable. It became a
special keepsake that I could cherish forever. The teddy holding her picture
sits beside my bed and when I need comforting, it is there. I cannot or will
not give up the "Wendy" bears. They will be a part of me forever. It was at
that time I changed my business name to GRANNIES MEMORY BEARS. I believe that
from my own tragic experience, God has given me this talent to share, in the
hopes I can offer some comfort to others.
This gift of comfort comes
from your heart…I'm only the humble messenger.
Love
GRANNIE
I may be contacted by email or telephone at
519-734-7903.
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This
is the FIRST DESIGNED ORIGINAL Grannie Memory Bear that helped me return
to my family.
The Grannie Memory Bear I made from Wendy's
bunny, patterned nightgown.
Christine, Becky & Wendy
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